My guy has a friend girl who he always mentions. And he told me the other day that this friend's mom just passed away last May. I called joana today to ask if they are more than friends, she said no they're just friends. Someone hurt the girl badly that she's taking refuge in my guy but only platonic.
All of my best friends are guys and I lean on them a lot, especially during hard times and breakups. I, however, respect myself and my friends enough to not disrespect anyone they're involved with. It's hard though when you're used to someone being around all the time and then their time is consumed with someone else. It's been a process for me too as my guy has a lot of female friends. I've learned to just accept it because I wouldn't give up my guy friends for him lol so I'd never ask him to give up any female friends. Of course if either of our friends were making it seem more than that, I'd have an issue. But even my guy friends who are married, I talk to them 24/7