I've booked my in-depth Crystal and tarot reading with Yona.
I'd like her to look at a situation with an ex, but I know from reading these posts it's better to keep it general. Is she good at picking up the situation with an ex usually without you saying a thing?
From my very limited experience and from reading these boards, it's best to keep it general and not ask a specific question. You have some time at the end to ask if you'd like to clarify anything.
My first reading was all about my love life - it's what I was hoping it would be about, but didn't ask. He just came up all on his own. Second reading he made brief appearances and the reading was entirely focused on other subjects.
I also read somewhere, and tend to believe, that whatever her cards show is what you should know, need to know. The most pressing matters will come to the fore, hence why her readings are so tailored and specific. I know it sounds kinda hokey but the cards really do speak to the specific person, it's like the universe's message being delivered to you via Yona.
So if your ex doesn't come up, I would surmise that he's just not relevant to you at this stage or his presence (or lack thereof) won't make a major difference.
Just my two cents.
Thank you for explaining that me, I'll let you know how I get on. She responded to my payment pretty quickly this morning, which is great. Just waiting for a time.
I don't like to ask for general readings, I'm calling for an answer to a question and so I ask it, but I understand other people have other methods and that's fine. I will say this, though -- I have spoken now twice with Yona, the first time I told her the questions I was interested in exploring and she examined them. When I called for a follow up reading I again told her my topic of interest and that it was a follow up reading and she said something along these lines: "Let me just take a look at what's coming up in your life, obviously this subject is of major interest but I would expect it then to come up naturally, if I try to make things fit too neatly then that's when we get into trouble, so let me just ask what's coming up."
So in a way she did sort of do a general reading, but with an awareness of a particular question that was on my mind. Ultimately it did come up, in fact it basically dominated my reading, so for me personally I would just let her know what's bothering you or what you really want to know about and then let her proceed the way she feels is best.
