Agreed.
For those of you who may not know what the meaning of the "solar plexus" is - it is 1 of the 7 Chakras.
In context of this message see the meanings below.
Solar Plexus energy is associated with the following:Will, personal power
Taking responsibility for one’s life,
taking controlMental abilities, the intellect
Forming personal opinions and beliefs
Making decisions, setting the direction
Clarity of judgments
Personal identity, personality
Self-assurance, confidence
Self-discipline
Independence
This tends to be more of a forceful, take action energy, which in relationships has the potential for the other person to feel manipulated.
There are positives too to this energy, but I am just supporting the context of the message below.
Whereas the "Heart chakra" is associated with the following energies:Love for oneself and others (i.e. focusing on yourself)
Relating, relationships
Compassion, empathy
Forgiveness, acceptance
Transformation, change
Ability to grieve and reach peace
Compassionate discernment
Center of awareness, integration of insights
The Heart space (chakra) is much softer and not forceful and naturally when people feel this energy coming from you, they will want to or eventually come back around or maybe even never leave you.
I guess another person said readers had said to let go and they don’t come back.
I guess I just don’t understand how me being quiet and doing my own thing will make him come back.
Because the energy of you wanting something so badly is the same energy that is strong enough to push it away...or so I've been told.
Basically what Hornet Kick said. And it's wanting to "make him come back" that pushes away, because when you feel that way about it, you're using your will. That energy comes from the solar plexus and when the other person feels it, they may feel like they are being manipulated. And with some people, that will push them away because they don't like that feeling. Someone else, they might come back around but start to engage in a battle of wills with you to assert their will over yours. When you come from the heart and have genuine acceptance for whatever someone chooses to do, it softens the energy and the other person may feel more drawn to you because of it.
I know it is often easier said, than done.