More updates for everyone. Seems like the predictions about my love life are rolling in one after another - finally! Similar to my last post, I'll transcribe from the notes I took and then I'll fill in with how the prediction actually went down. I believe she made the following prediction in all of my readings, however in the first and second readings she couldn't grasp quite what the scenario would be and as such it came out discombobulated in different spreads. I'm including some of the notes from different spreads so you all can see what I mean and how the prediction ended up tying together. At the time I didn't realize that the predictions would be linked together again because they came out rather discombobulated. This might help people understand if their reading felt all over the place.
2nd reading, 1st spread
man with dark eyes and a period where communication is blocked/nonexistent followed by 3 of Wands, and explanation. It's sincere, and I'm fine with it - I recognize that it's honest. Devil card upright - good card - it won't be a problem again. Milestone, predictive marker. Genuine, insights, given some thought into what they've said.
2nd reading, 2nd spread
Ace if cups - feelings, romance. Me and poi are going to be in different places. 5 of cups - referencing me and detachment between poi and it bothers me the distance, they matter. Doesn't seem like I know quite what they're getting up to during this time. Doesn't say a door closes, it's a new phase. I seem uneasy about what they are up to
2nd reading, 3rd spread
man who tends to do things in a fixed way, restricted, tried and true. 5 of cups - me and poi will be physically and possibly emotionally detached. Wondering what they're up to in the meantime.
3rd reading, 1st spread
Poi - male apologizes for changing existing plans or backing off, thought about it a lot at that point, explanation or apology, not an unfriendly conversation. Giving the impression of backing off but it's not necessarily what he means. King of swords - someone who does things by the book, used to doing things in a certain way - isn't quite flexible with change. This guy is not dishonest - will communicate with me, explaining his viewpoint at that time. I'll think he's trying to back off. Not a real attempt to back off, doesn't say that it's false. He's not that adaptable. One of us takes a trip.
3rd reading, 2nd spread
man changing existing plans, me thinking he's backing out, by as keen. He's at his best with planned routine. Keeping emotions to himself, I'm almost suspicious or cynical. Don't think he's lying, lack of flexibility.
4th reading
(after telling me details about how I'll be spending time with poi) ...learning more about them and vice Versa, it's light, followed by a Tower, not appalling/things not going according to plan. This knocks confidence as an individual, not as a couple. At a distance - worried about someone at a distance worried about detachment
how it actually went down
Poi ended up going on a trip at the beginning of October for 2 weeks. Communication was okay, almost a week went by before he got in touch with me while on this trip so obviously I was like wtf. The second week of his trip communication picked back up, and we made plans to see each other when he returned. When he returned, he cancelled our plans because he wasn't feeling good. A few days after this after still not hearing from him, I invited him to join in on a weekend activity with me and a friend. He didn't get back to me till a few days later, leaving me basically a week and a half without communication. I thought for sure he was ghosting me and that he wasn't interested in me anymore especially since he didn't respond to my invitation. When he did get back to me, he apologized and let me know about all of these projects he had at work and how they sprung a last minute project out of the country on him and he had been scrambling to get everything taken care of before then. We also saw each other the next day and he went into deeper explanation of his whereabouts. Up until that point I was extremely cynical but I did realize he was being honest. When we were together our dynamic was the sameness and we picked up like no yime hadn't passed. In sequence with the 1st spread of the 3rd reading, he is indeed going on a trip out of the country after the explanation.
So that's that. The period of time with nonexistent communication, detachment and being physically apart from poi, poi changing existing plans, me thinking he's backing off followed by an explanation/apology, this shaking me as an individual but not a couple, him not being adaptable, and him going on a trip. Hope this helps!