Guys, huge plot twist
Yona got the pilot right, he would ignore my messages and take maybe a day to respond, and it seems that he was more focused on how hot I am (he described me as hot, and made it clear he wanted to sleep with me). He didn't speak to me for three days and had been opening messages and just not responding. He then decided he wanted to meet up with me but I'm not going to be messed around like that again and as Yona said I need to not let men walk over me. She was right in his description and also very correct that I will get bored of him, he will like me more than I like him and that I'll block him on social media (I told him I was uncomfortable with some of the stuff he said, he'd apologize and go back to being sexual). Big hit for Yona.
However I was at a party last night with my future housemates, one of the girls who hosted the party was my friends friend, another was actually a friend of mine from my course! Someone mistakenly called me my friend's girlfriend and we made a joke about it all night. We were messing around on tinder so I stole his phone and matched him with me as a joke.... We kept making jokes about our "relationship" and then on the way back to the hotel, we ended up kissing, oops! I really really like him and it seems that he hasn't ever really been bothered about a relationship or women however his best friend who is one of my future housemates was shocked and agreed that he likes me.
So who knows. I really like this guy but didn't think he'd ever see me as more than a friend and we've been talking and flirting all night. Fingers crossed, I'm done hurting and deserve my happiness