Dear Samantha, thank you so much! Much much appreciated!
I texted with the Wands guy and agreed to meet up. I will just have to see if I can feel anything.
I mean both this and the Cups guy are attractive but i'm just feeling nothing-nada.
You may be right. However, and I will come clean right now. In one half reading, that gave some predictions but where she lost the connection in the crystal it came up that I have my Knight of Wands mixed up. like how the old Wands is a Wands but may not be THE. so added with this, I am worried.
I mean, it'd be a case of where the guy is super super into you and you feel nothing. but I wouldn't have to worry about other women, or being cheated on b/c I don't really care.
But I worry also that this means that I won't have much happening till this guy leaves and returns.
I either spark or I don't spark. and I had already gone out once with this fella and not felt anything. I agreed to drinks and I've fallen into this trap before, many times over, staring in my 20s of using drinks as a crutch to feel a spark, only to wake up the next day hungover with a feeling I made a big mistake.
and thank you Massine ; much appreciated as well.
Anyhow, I'll update but this means that now my bureaucratic procedure is next-and it's good I booked a top up for end of August since the first layout is near over.
Yeah, definitely don’t try to force a connection just for prediction-sake. As you’ve said, either it’s there or it isn’t and you’ve already gone out with this guy and felt nothing. May I ask how long ago that was? If it was sometime recent, I say, I can guarantee you won’t feel anything with him. That’s one thing I said I’d never do: settle. I’m not saying you’re settling (because you’re very upfront with how attraction doesn’t grow and you either feel a spark or not), but I’ve witnessed too many women in my life do such a thing and they’re either miserable, divorced X number is times, etc.
If this guy leaves, returns, and then a spark arises that time around (which could, potentially happen), I think it’s possible to say the prediction was accurate, but only at that point. Don’t stress too much over it 😊 It’s difficult, but putting predictions (from ANY psychic, not just Yona) and living your life as you normally would is the best advice to take.
Lillypad, Samantha, and Cranberry, thank you so so much. So much good thought here, so much support. Hugs to you all and thanks for the show of support! I'll respond to some key elements in each of your posts.
First, Lillypad I can't express this better than you've put it. My mom and I always have these chats about settling and how some women can pull it off but we aren't the types. Case in point-she made a logical decision to marry my dad b/c they were good friends but ultimately 17 years later, the lack of spark caused her to flee and make more errors. But back in the day and in my home country especially, it used to be that marriage was sort of a monetary deal too-so if she had had my financial independence I am not sure if she'd have chosen that path.
To be clear, all these men -the Wands of interest, the Cups, and the new Wands,, are financially restricted and this is something that would always come up But that's not the point.
I know that this is a golden guy as in he'd treat me like a queen, never cheat, never force anything on me . I know all this but I just don't want to get physical with him which sucks.
To answer your question, I had met him last May and gone out with him last June. so approx a year ago. This is why I'll give him another shot.
The one thing that does not match however is that Yona saw that this guy is not communicative over text or email-2 of pentacles crossed by 2 of swords, ,and 9 of swords, this worries and vexes me. the old Wands is *exactly* like this. This one is the opposite-he responds via text or messenger within the minute.
So it's like an R loop of ifelse propositions that then hits this condition and evaluates to 'False'-like financial discrepancy, that we had been out of contact for a while, face to face contact, all this checks out until the proposition about him not communicating.
I mean unless he were to change over time -but unlikely.
Samantha-yep, it was much easier when I only had the Wands of interest but even then the cards would give random people like Pentacles but the key difference was she was *always * able to tell that I"m not interested.
Like with this Wands she eventually sees that I have passion with him and then I'm impatient to 'do it again' (!), and that I worry about him not communicating, I'm impatient to see him again etc.
Sure, there's the adage about how s/o you aren't attracted to can surprise you in bed, esp for women, since men can do it with anyone pretty much, but I just can't stomach even kissing him.
Cranberry, I was going to comment on a phenomenon you have highlighted earlier. YEP. yep yep. So usually when I get stuff misidentified events would usually correct me shortly-like almost the misidentification would be a precursor of sorts but not quite fit -and it had happened right before I had identified the Wands, that I'd thought it's s/o else , again who was into me but not vice versa, simply b/c Yona had seen I'd bump into a guy of interest and I had bumped into this man.
