Hi Fidget,
The apology predictions are hit and miss with Yona. I have had one since October 2017-at the time my old love interest and I were almost dating-we'd gone out on one real date and we were holding hands etc and had almost kissed once in the car. Things just stalled due to his financial restrictions and mismatch in lifestyle . I retreated after a while and our common friends left town for good meaning that our group 'dates' or hangouts were no more. Several times he did stuff he'd need to apologize for, but wasn't aware of it (flirting with other women) since we were not a couple; and couple of times I did stuff I'd have to apologize for.
This apology prediction has been repeating ever since. BUT recently the cards are phrasing it as an explanation and update where he tells me he is leaving town due to needing to make money.
Soo, all this to say that the 3 of wands stands for apology or update and explanation. It is clear it's going to be the latter-in fact, she could see that our energies are interacting in a friendly way and I think she got a card that says 'friendly interaction' . It does also say that there is a far distant point when he returns to town, covid is over (b/c it showed face to face hangout at a venue), and he explains things about our past. so that may also be the true 3 of wands she sees.
But all this to say , I wouldn't hold my breath.
Likewise, for me as well it can be a brand new KoW.
I have never heard of someone taking away a Tower but my two cents: if your Tower was a breakup or something like this, it means he will make it right.