My reasoning is if you go general, she'll pick up what's relevant. If I ask about a POI, she (or any reader) may very well be accurate, but maybe not relevant right now. I think, and I could be wrong, that psychics are given what "spirit " wants us to know. Focusing on family or a career may be what is relevant right now to better prepare us for the future relationship stuff. If we always ask about POIs, we may be forcing them to get info on things that may need more time.