I read with Yona in late May (my first reading) and I followed some of the suggestions mentioned in this thread: Don't ask her specific questions and I let her pick up what I was thinking. Background: Long term ex and I were dating and then he broke up with me out of the blue. Also, curious about my money and living arrangements. Yona picked up on both without me saying anything.
I am assuming I have fast moving cards. She didn't say I did but so far: 1. Tower moment happened less than week after speaking with her (she said it would happen within 2 weeks). She mentioned it wasn't terrible but apparently she's known for downplaying situations but she said I would bounceback and defend my interests (m
y POI and I had an argument and I called him out on some things on what he originally told me and then he wanted to meet in-person to explain).
2. She mentioned my POI would tell me he didn't like the criticism, that I would make a couple of comments and he would back off and that we may not be speaking or not in the same location. (
We agreed to meet at a restaurant for our in-person meeting, I called him an insulting phrase and he ended up refusing to pay for my drink because I called him the insulting phrase and then we stopped talking for about a month).
3. She also mentioned that I would get additional information but I still haven't gotten the full story on his side. That he basically edits what he tells me and that he's not being manipulative but more so a mess and all over the place in her eyes. That the whole ordeal would be confusing and how can I make an adequate decision when my head is being messed with? (
(Him saying that he's just casually dating but also, he asked me in our in person meeting what I wanted from him and he kept trying to get me to answer who I was dating and he wouldn't leave me alone about it. In my eyes, if you're not interested in anything further, why are you asking me what I want from you and who I'm dating? My head was def. being messed with). It's an ongoing connection at this point and that I would be quite stressed. That I would feel the urge to want to "tidy" up my life but not to make a hasty decision (
(All true!) That I would be contemplating what I want and also getting more ticked off with him. Asking myself what's the point of behaving like this? Being irritable. (
(All true again.)4. Extension of #3. Being determined to move forward and change my life, living arrangements, but seeing it as progress, that I would be looking at different opportunities and making comparisons.
(I've now been focused on if I want to move. Do I want a house or another apartment. Do I want to take more courses for work? I've been focusing on my growth both career and personal life. References to friends and that I could be interacting with one or two people to catch up with and that I would be having conversations with friends or spending time with a friend.
(I thought it would be my best friend who lives up here but actually, one friend who lives in another state, he's been updating me on his life a lot and then I had another friend decide to randomly come into town and we spent time with each other, catching up. I have also been hanging out with some girlfriends. 5. She spoke about my finances and figuring out what I'm doing with my money and what I plan on doing next is currently in progress. That abundance could happen later on.
I got a nice raise at work and then I got a huge bill in the mail maybe 2 weeks after the raise. I'm currently trying to figure out the payments for the bill because it will impact my retirement so I'm currently making plans to pay this off so I can have enough for retirement while also setting more money aside and opening up another 401k. 6. POI would be processing stuff, he gets touchy, and resentful. There's sharp criticism
(Basically in a text, I called him out on needing his friends for an ego boost and that they're not good friends bc they've shown their true colors and that he turns a blind eye to their mess. I could tell he became irritable because I held a mirror to his face and gave examples of his friends' terrible behavior. He sent so many paragraphs. He was triggered and acting resentful. I exposed him, his friends, and his insecurities.). 7. Gap in communication and that I would be ignoring him
(Currently happening. He's been acting childish on social media and trying to get my attention. I refuse to respond to his antics because another Psychic said that practically everything he's doing, is to get my attention. I thought the ignoring would be me not speaking to him but also, I am ignoring his social media antics. His sm antics originally got to me and had me saying things to him but I've stopped. I've been told by another Psychic, and Yona, that he wants to continue the link with me and doesn't want to let me go). Yona mentioned it would be two patches of no-contact. I don't know what "patches" mean in UK terminology but we talked on and off but it has been brief. We are now in our second long term no talking phase. It's been almost a month now.
8. Next few months would be quite challenging
Reading in late May, it's now August and these last few months have def. been QUITE challenging. Still pending....
