Yona is a sugarcoater. She downplays negatives and overhype positives. Also, in my experience if she feels you're not open to certain things she will not emphasize them or tell them to you in a casual way that doesnt seem important.So, she could tell you
No in a convoluted/encrypted way. Like telling you it will take years to get communication and then tell you that the communication doesn't move you forward right away.
If you're not thinking you may assume this means it'll take awhile to build this relationship back up...but there is hope.
But, what she really has told you is that in
years this relationship doesn't move forward. Now add in the fact that yona as a different view of timing her weeks are months months=many months/years. So years could be 5-10yrs or NEVER.
You have to be careful with yona, ask her questions and call her out (nicely) when she's not being straightforward. Also, when or if she ask you "Does this surprise you" you should answer in a way that doesn't give away your expectations.
I believe this question is her way of gauging what you're comfortable hearing.
If you really want to get a more honest reading from her be open to new people/ideas/paths. When she ask you does this suprises you...say Yes , I was thinking I'll get a new person since this has been stagnant for so long...Is there a new person for me?
Curious: does anyone have any experience where Yona tells you things wont work out with your poi? Or are her poi predictions always positive?
