Since there's only a few more days of summer left, thought I would give another update on my 10 of Cups in the house card (partnership) that was predicted multiple times to occur by the end of summer that I have been very impatiently waiting to see how it unfolds. So far, it's turning out to be a little bit of a letdown as far as I can tell, although it still pretty much fits with what Yona predicted.
In the first reading where the 10 of Cups came up (October 2018) Yona interpreted this prediction as a turning point, exploring new territory, POI and I being equally balanced, and things being progressive - this was predicted to occur by the end of this summer. In the next reading where it appeared (April 2019), she said I would be put on the spot and asked a nice question (she thought involving property), and it would involve discomfort or disruption to my routine, but it was also being shown as something that I want and would bring us closer together - at the time of that reading, I asked her if this could just be him visiting me, and she said yes but only if he had never been to my house before, or we had a big fight and it indicated reconciliation - neither of those were likely to be the case, so, she thought this indicated progress, maybe even somehow living together. In the last reading where it appeared again (July 2019), she indicated that the cards were telling her that I should not support him financially in any way shape or form.
So here's how things have actually been in my life lately: Due to a health issue, I have spent the last 3-4 months living with my parents, and just moved back to my own place a couple of days ago. I had not seen my POI since I moved away, and have been disappointed with that although I understand the reasons why he couldn't visit. We did keep in touch, and at one point a few weeks ago he messaged that he really missed me and wanted to take me to dinner when I got back (this would be a step forward, he's never offered to take me to dinner before). I thought this might be the beginning of something a little less one-sided between us (not necessarily actual dating, just more of an equal effort in the situation we have). POI had plans to visit me the day after I was planning on coming home - he then asked if he could come over after work (5am for him) and sleep at my place so we could spend more time together before he had to go to work the following afternoon (he rarely spends the night at my place) - I think this must have been the question involving a change to my routine that Yona saw, and obviously it's something that brought us closer together (temporarily). Other than that, nothing seems to have changed between us - things were good but a tiny bit awkward between us actually - and there has been no mention of actually planning that dinner yet (which doesn't surprise me).
All in all, I really think the 10 of Cups was only shown as kind of a a big deal in all of these readings because it was a reconciliation of sorts due to the forced separation when I moved. I am not sure what the last reading was talking about regarding financial support - I do tend to always provide food etc. for us when he visits, so maybe it was telling me to not do that so much, idk. Or maybe not all of these 10 of Cups are the same event - only the first one had a time frame of summer attached, maybe the last one indicates a different event between us - idk, I guess time will tell.
Sorry for all of the rambling, will update if anything changes!