Hey BayPark! I'm a frequent reader with Sherri Lynn and so far sadly she seems to be accurate but I have been told she also can be wrong too. So maybe she is wrong for you. She told me my ex and I will not get back together right now 
which of course is obvious we are not talking right now she can't seem to give me answer if he will get back together in future and she said he is emotionally away from me while others have mostly said he is confused and has not made a decision on whether not he doesn't want or wants me so he stays away.
As in regards to Judi though I thought she was good at first, she made it appaer in August that my ex was really sorry for what he said to me in July and he doesnt want me to be mad with him. Well, guess what I have heard nothing and he does not seem to care at all.
All I can say is just take it one day at a time and go by his actions and right now hes not doing anything.
It sounds like we are in the same boat. The readers have said the same thing to me. He's confused, not sure he wants a relationship, is in decision making mode, etc. As for Judi, I've had 3 readings. The first one he was filled with fear but loved me and wanted something with me but needed time. He was doing the "what ifs" and he was stressing about it. The 2nd one was basically the same except he wasn't ready to give up his freedom and give what it takes to have a relationship but had no desire to date or find anyone else, then yesterday, he really "likes" me - no love was mentioned and that he wants to be friends and is trying to label it as that but really does want more. Then when I told her he was on a dating site, she said he was basically just looking around and if he found friends with benefits/companion that would be fine, but he's really not into it and doesn't think he'll find anyone. She said what he's looking for is me in someone else. So either she is full of crap or he is really screwed up
Here's the bottom line. He's not making any effort and I don't see any actions as to him even wanting to maintain our friendship and go from there. After my reading with Sherri Lynn, I completely let go. I actually texted him and told him his lack of communication via text, about something that was pretty important, shows me where he is at and that I will cease trying to maintain a friendship. He texted back and said he didn't know what to think of my text so I told him his actions show me he doesn't even want to maintain a friendship so I'm letting him go. He hasn't responded. He wanted me to call him but I didn't want to talk to him so I lied and told him I couldn't talk. He probably won't call or text again because he doesn't want to deal with emotional stuff and me being honest is basically being an emotional woman. I'm really freaking tired of these men not seeing my worth and how really great I am. The grass is always greener syndrome has struck them all and they can't see something amazing that is standing in front of them. They would rather seek another woman that will eventually be a nightmare then acknowledge the person in front of them, for whatever reason.
I think these readings get our hopes up and as times goes by the readings change to reflect what they should have told us from the beginning. I'm disappointed in Judi actually. My 2nd call to her I told her he said he wanted to be friends. So the third call she must have remembered and talked about just being friends and he really likes but the 2 previous calls were he loved me and really wanted me blah blah blah. How can it change so drastically in 5 days? Impossible.
I think the best way to get a man to come back is to let them go 200%. If they come back, then it's meant to be, as the saying says. I've wasted ALOT of time, thoughts and MONEY to find out everything I've been told is bullcrap. In my gut, I knew the answer. I think we all do. But these readings tell us what we want to hear so it prolongs us from moving on. In my gut, I feel he doesn't really care for me like he said he did and I'm really not as important to him as he said I was. We need to remember that actions speak volumes regardless of what a psychic says.
So for now, I'm moving on and letting go. If he comes back fine and I'll see how I feel. If he doesn't, he's the loser and I'm the winner. I'm taking MY power back! Enough of this bullcrap.
Can you tell I'm at the end of my rope? LOL
