I haven't been on here for months, and probably won't be back for months again. Just had a few spare minutes and needed to take a break from work.
I spent 18 months calling (2010-2011). Lost a job over my obsession with this man, though truth be told the guy I worked for was very difficult to work with and it turned out that he had health issues as well (why didn't anyone predict this? I called about work as well as the MIA man).
I am 2 years into a new r/s with an absolutely wonderful man. I can probably stretch and say a couple may have seen this.....but the only one that sticks out said they saw an oldest son. (he is an only son). He does not own his own business, never has - and I was told that I would meet a successful business owner many times. When we first started dating, I made my last psychic calls and I was told by 2-3 psychics that this r/s would not work out, because of course my exbf would come back.
As for exbf, I last saw him over two years ago, by chance, before I started dating the current guy. He has not emailed me or called me. Ironically we were still fb friends, but he rarely used that account. I can't remember the last time either of us commented on a post or liked something the other put up, and he deactivated that account a week or two ago.
Last fall I was dx'd with a thyroid condition and this past winter, adrenal fatigue. Best guess the thyroid condition has been with me for awhile, and the AF was probably triggered by all the stress of the failed r/s, my inability to move on (which was fueled by the psychics), work, lack of funds, the normal stuff. Based on symptoms, I'd say the AF had started to hit me in 2011 - while I was still calling psychics. Not ONE of them told me to get anything checked out. Not only is this treatable, but the depth that I have now could have been prevented. It's not like they were telling me I was going to die, but dealing with it has also been a huge financial hit and a strain on my every day life. I'm not even supposed to do anything more than walking, nor get stressed and the job that is 2/3 of my income IS stressful - not much I can do about it unless I find something to replace it and just the THOUGHT of that is stressful.
The CC I used was over 10K when I had it transferred to a 0% card. I've now transferred it a second time - and keep in mind that of course I was making payments. Ten thousand dollars. My one and only new car cost 10,500. That's almost a years worth of mortgage payments. Over 5 years worth of groceries. Over 3 years of health insurance payments. 10 thousand freakin dollars. I still have $7500 to go and I expect it will take me another 3 years to do so. And what did I get for all that? Basically a life lesson.
I did have one psychic warn me financially, only because she had another client who had spent so much she almost lost her house. I was embarrassed to tell her how much I really spent, and honestly I never tallied it. I had the CC, but I also paid some out of my own checking and my business checking accounts (hopefully I don't get audited, I'd hate to explain that one!)
I am not the only one that has spent this much. I used to say that if he ever came back, it would be worth every penny. But even if he does come back, I don't want him. I don't need anyone in my life who put me through that much pain and heartache for no sane reason.
I really don't know if there are "real" psychics. I know I talked to a lot of really compassionate people, and I talked to some great life coaches. But there are things I think a "real" psychic could have picked up on, and they didn't.
My .02
