Hi bark angel and welcome to the forum.
Am sorry about your love worries and pray that yoù find peace soon.
I think the best way to understand these readers and their failures is to read almost all the posts here. This will give you a better sense of them than if I summarize them here.
It may take hours or days but it will give ýou a glimpse of their methods, their tricks, their lies etc.
Pick a reader that you are currently reading with and search the forum for everything concerning them. They may start of with praise but as time goes on you will see the praise start to fade as the reality has shown that we were being lied to or that our outcomes NEVER comes true with relationships but we were wowed with circus tricks or with information readers got from forums, chats, sharing notes etc.
Pick a reader and investigate them through forums.
Go with the masses.