I have been hesitant and lazy to post this. However, I would have appreciated older members providing updates when I was in the crux of getting readings every day. Hopefully this post will help some of you in your quest to inner peace over your respective relationships. I will preface this by saying that I hope everything works out in all of your favor and after all of this - I still believe in psychics. I just don't necessarily believe in "outcome predictions" and the ability to correctly predict romantic relationships. I have had countless predictions come to pass, which were unfortunately irrelevant to the overall relationship. That being said - as some of you may know, I've been getting readings for the last 2 years regarding an on and off relationship that has span approximately 6 years. It has not been without its issues over the course of this time period, but our first official breakup after 2 years of a “committed” relationship took place officially 2 years ago. The same 2 years I have been relying on psychics and consequently charlatans for advice. My ex, H and I, continued to have a relationship/friendship a few months after the breakup, which turned romantic a year after we broke up. We started dating again and spending a TON of time together and I really felt like he had changed and we were headed towards a full reconciliation. During this time (this was end of 2011/beginning of 2012) I was getting readings from everyone and the readings matched this reconciliation I believed I was headed for.
In March of 2012, after dating for 4 months, I found out H had a girlfriend. Nobody had picked up on her. Not only did he have a girlfriend, but he had moved her into his house in October of the year prior. A full blown live in girlfriend the entire time I was dating him again. If you reference my posts from before – I believe I had said who had “seen” this girlfriend.
Of course, when I had a complete meltdown at him, he claimed that he didn’t love her, only moved her in for finances, had never anticipated we would get back together but didn’t want to lose me, I was his soul mate, he was going to break up with her, etc. Everything a man could possibly say to keep someone around when coming across this information.
This was in March of 2012. After all of these declarations of love, promises from him, etc, he did nothing. I didn’t see H again until the end of July, when we were both on the East Coast and met up after all this time. Again, it was the same thing as before and the promises to end the relationship with his current gf, the soul mate nonsense, and he had bumped it up a notch to now wanting to marry me and have children with me. During this time I continued getting readings, as I was being told, from the person I loved, that we were going to be together. ALL of the readers saw us reconciling in 2012. That things would finally end with my ex and his gf, she would move out, and we would be together. Forget the fact of how completely illogical I was being, I was convinced everything was going to work out.
During this time the COUPLE of readers who told me not to expect anything from my ex in regard to ending his relationship and that I should move forward were:
Ness21 and Maurine36. Both readers maintained they did not see him doing anything until MAYBE sometime in 2013. Could these be lucky guesses? Sure. Did I spend thousands on every other reader telling me otherwise, which was ultimately wrong? Yes. I will mention that
NorthStarJulie was excellent with predictions about 1 month or so into the future, but was incorrect with 6 months and a year out, etc. She is the only reader I call for updates regarding things now, as I really believe she is ethical and was correct with me on countless smaller predictions that only were a month or two out.
Cookie got tons of things right that came to fruition WITH OTHER GUYS. She also pushed back predictions once her original timing had passed and painted a much more positive picture than what actually transpired – she also threw in a bunch of nonsense, which was in fact completely nonsense.
Kisha was correct on smaller predictions, like contact, face to face, events, etc. Unfortunately, predictions for improvement and reconciliation did not come to pass. I feel that she is gifted - but my ex and I did not reconcile. That being said, she did give me timeframes which came to pass for meeting a man I am currently dating.
Hatter saw the improvement that took place with my ex and I in the mid/late summer, but also thought we’d reconcile. My second reading with her (In October of 2012) she had said that his gf and him were supposed to have broken up, but now he had waited too long and a Leo man was coming in by January. I met this Leo man in the end of November and we have been together ever since.
Thomas John predicted my current boyfriend’s profession, but was wrong about reconciling with the ex as well. Jenny Alton also picked up on things, but was far too positive on her predictions with my ex, which ultimately have not come to fruition as of yet. She also saw no committed relationship for my current boyfriend and I – and that was just incorrect, therefore I am inclined to believe the ex predictions were wrong as well. She is gifted and can tell you fun details like Cookie, which is entertaining. ENTERTAINING! Not life guidance or anything to set your clocks by.
If you are going to get readings, just make sure you hedge your bets on your time and life carefully. Ultimately if I had to make recommendations on who I believe is gifted I would say:
Ness21, Maurine36, Aries Intuition, NorthStarJulie, and Hatter – and the only ones who have been right on outcome for me at this juncture were
Ness, Maurine, Julie (said it could go either way depending on if I moved on, therefore proving nothing is set in stone), and
Hatter (but also started off with much different predictions and then changed as more time unfolded).
I know some of you believe that if my ex comes forward at some point and attempts to reconcile then these psychics would have been right. Friends, my ex and I are never reconciling. After the year+ of HELL and jerking around he has put me thru, I was finally able to see this relationship and him for what he is, and accept that he isn’t willing to do what it takes to be with me. I stopped seeing things thru the convoluted guidance of most of these cold readers, or people who are actually gifted but can’t see everything and still offer predictions. I have met a wonderful man and I am giving this relationship my all. I have also learned that if someone wants to be with you –
THEY ARE WITH YOU. I don’t care what sort of excuses psychics give and I am not trying to offend anyone – these external and emotional issues are not the reason these men/women do not want to be with us. They just don’t want to make themselves uncomfortable, change their life, give up something else, or just commit. It isn’t as complicated as we have led ourselves to believe in order to feel better about it. I spent years and thousands of dollars on this man and believed we would get back together. I had everything invested in our future and it didn’t work out the way most everyone saw. It also begs the question – what are these readers picking up on? Intent? What we think will happen? I still believe in psychic gifts but I don’t believe 90% of readers mentioned on this board are gifted enough to make predictions, let alone be trusted with any of our life plans, emotions, or time.
If anyone wants to PM me about specific readers and my experiences, I am happy to help. At least I can give back to people on this board. I have made some amazing friends here and regret nothing. The only thing I wish is that I had someone on this board two years ago who was able to tell me that I was wasting my money and time.
Love love love,
Liz
