alright am so tired of being told that a new guy or money was coming into my life. The guy usually has 'J', 'M' or 'C' in his name. May have one or two kids, will love me so much, will be here in the spring, summer fall or winter. Money will come around someone's birtday, in the spring, summer.... You get the picture. I think they tell us about the guy because they know we are crying for our exes and would like a distraction and they tell us about the money so we will continue spending on them with the hope that money is coming to replensh our empty bank accounts. Imho