well, lets be honest. a lot of people ARE in a "holding pattern". if you kept seeing this for people wouldn't you just use the same terminology? it's like us with explaining Astrology to people. when you are talking about aspects you probably explain them the same way.
now, i agree with you if they are just doing cookie-cutter readings. the point is, if they ARE seeing the same thing/situation then they'll probably just explain it the same way or use the same wording.
i'm not taking sides here. just trying to understand maybe why this happens.