Thanks. I appreciate your insight. However, what is weird is this "guy" is very wordly and in his mid-50's. I don't think he is aware that I am 10 years older....perhaps he thinks I am only 5 years. Anyway, despite how strong he is professionally, he was very awkward.
What is more strange...and what I can offer to this group....is that I used to be one of those people who hung on every guy's words and wondered "when will he call" etc etc. I grew out of that phase and thought I would never feel that way again. However, this is the first guy who has given me butterflies in a long time and the anxiety started up all over again.
At least the sadness that comes from a "weird date" only lasted a few days.
I will let you know if this shy guy changes direction. You are sweet, aqua girl.