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Very few of those who i have called,can predict happenings ahead of time,but many can give good insight.They can tell how someone feels about you,and as mentioned here,why they act like they do.TJ is better than most at this.
He has not given me many predictions,and those he gave,did not yet come to pass.And its been years now.
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So your answer above makes me question whether or not I should listen to any of his advise! He told me to not contact my guy at all and if he wants to see me accept but only like at a restaurant bc he didn't want me to get lured into bed (
) He said in my case the guy has a strong visual connection to me and this will create a pull for him. He said I should stay steadfast in keeping him at arm's distance until he comes back and really wants to date me again. (i broke up with my guy bc he hasn;t filed for divorce yet and I wasn't feeling like he was really into having a relationship - also he told me that as well) So i ended things but it seems we are always in touch with each other.
TJ maintains that if I stay with this hard line and don;t let him back, that he will be back on his own in a matter of just a few months. And if I let him back right away it will take much much longer for us to be in any sort of committed relationship. So based on the reviews who said he was not correct in his predictions, how can I trust that the advise is accurate and that my guy will come back around? It is confusing to me - maybe someone can shed some light on what to do in a circumstance like this...