I agree about the phrasing. To her, reconnecting and reconciling are two very different animals.
I probably wouldn't call her again and just file it away in my mind, in case she is right, if I was in your shoes.
I have gotten percentages from her as well, just once, but I didn't feel the need for it, a yes or no would have sufficed from her.
As far as being cold, lol that is just how she is. And she tends to send emails to everyone who reads with her after a reading it seems.
Like I said before, given your situation, I do highly recommend NSJ. She is good with the present and with outcomes, I feel. And she is honest and realistic.